How to Talk Dirty Over Text (Without Feeling Cringe)
You want to turn up the heat.
Build tension.
Maybe even leave him thinking about you all night...
But when you go to type something seductive, your brain freezes and your thumbs backspace like you're defusing a bomb.
Good news?
Talking dirty over text doesn’t have to feel awkward or fake.
You don’t need to sound like a phone sex operator.
You just need a little guidance—and permission to let your inner vixen speak up.
✅ Tip 1: Start Subtle
You don’t have to go full Fifty Shades right away.
Try a playful tease: "
If you knew what I was thinking right now... 😉"
It opens the door without putting you on blast.
✅ Tip 2: Use His Imagination Against Him
The trick isn’t being explicit—it’s letting him fill in the blanks.
A well-placed "I can't stop thinking about last night..." can do more than a paragraph of description.
✅ Tip 3: Borrow Confidence Until You Build Your Own
If you feel shy, it helps to have a secret script—lines that feel natural, flirty, and powerful, even if you're not sure where to start.
That’s what the Language of Desire gives you.
✅ Tip 4: Keep It About *Feeling*, Not Just Action
“I love how your voice makes me feel” or “You have no idea what you do to me” keeps things emotional and hot.
Dirty talk is about connection, not just body parts.
✅ Tip 5: Practice (Privately)
Seriously—open your notes app and try writing a few sexy lines just for yourself.
It builds comfort and gives you a stash to pull from when the moment’s right.
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Click here to check out The Language of Desire.
Related: How to Make Him Obsessed With You Over Text
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P.S. Want to talk dirty without overthinking it? This guide makes it feel fun, flirty, and 100% you.