How to Make Him Obsessed With You Over Text
Let’s be honest...
Texting is where it all starts these days.
Whether you just matched, swapped numbers, or have been talking for a while, your texts can spark *real* chemistry.
So if you're wondering how to make him lowkey obsessed with you (in the fun, flirty, totally healthy way)... this is your playbook.
Related: Want to turn up the charm? Try these romantic things to say to your crush over text.
1. Master the Mystery
Don’t send your entire life story in one message.
Drop breadcrumbs.
- “I’ll tell you the story… later. 😉”
- “You’re not ready for the answer to that.”
2. Use Voice Notes or GIFs
Texting gets predictable.
Shake it up with a quick voice note, flirty selfie, or the perfect GIF.
It adds *you* to the message—and he’ll replay it.
Trust.
3. Create an Inside Joke
Once you’ve got one, you’re not just some girl—you're the girl who gets it.
Memes, silly phrases, even emojis only you two use = instant connection.
4. Make Him Wait (a Little)
Don’t be glued to your phone.
Take your time replying.
Build anticipation.
He’ll check his phone 10x more if he knows your replies are worth the wait.
5. Say His Name
It sounds so simple—but using his name in a text hits different.
It makes the message feel direct and personal.
- “I was just thinking about you, [his name]…”
- “Don’t tempt me, [his name].”
6. End on a Cliffhanger
Leave a little suspense.
Make him want to keep talking.
- “Wait ‘til I tell you what happened today…”
- “Remind me to tell you something later—it’s wild.”
7. Send a Secret Message
If you *really* want to stand out, don’t just text—send him a Secret Love Note he has to unlock with a code only the two of you would know.
It's clever, mysterious, and unforgettable.
Final Thought:
You don’t need to overdo it.
Just be 'you'—but with a twist of mystery, a dash of boldness, and a sprinkle of sass.
That’s the recipe for obsession. 😉
With love,
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